黃小琥-沒那麼簡單

i want to share this music video clip.. because somehow my mood right now is what the lyrics is saying right now.. ITS NOT THAT EASY~~~ to do anything.. hmmm....

Life Partner is a NEED or is a MUST???

Everyone would search for their own life partner whom they will be going to live forever with you. But searching for life partner is a MUST or is a NEED?? The difference between 'NEED' and 'MUST' is not really much. A 'NEED' is to have a life partner by their side during their hard times or happy times. While, 'MUST' is a tradition or the norms of the society to have the life partner by their side. Some people would easily and meet him/her life partner. But some would find some way either through agency or religious.

If he/she doesn't have a life partner at some age, there would be some so-called 'old lady' or some nick name to be labelled to them. When you have arrive at some age, most people would ask you, 'Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?' This is a very common question being asked by most of aunties. But do they know that sometimes is not they don't want but they couldn't find one. Or because they don't think they would want one. Having someone special by their side at all times, no matter happy or sad times, is really a good feeling. Maybe it is the timing for all this to happen.

Sometimes I think whether my thought is a 'NEED' or 'MUST'. Sometimes, I really looking someone to talked to, no matter it is happy or sad moments. But, sometimes I would think, I better look after myself on my own. Compare on relying on others to do something, we better do it on our own. Maybe some people would not agree on what I'm thinking. But, this what I've been thinking and can made conclusion on.

Anyway, I would like grab the opportunity to said HAPPY VALENTINE, to everyone sweet couple in the world. Valentine's Day is just around the corner. So, for those couple out there, please do treasure the moments together and for those who are still single, don't worry about it. YOU will have the time, it is just the matter of time.


 So, what do you think? Do you think life partner is a 'NEED' or a 'MUST'? I mean life partner here is the person who will be by your side all the time and forever.

working life dillema..

this year Chinese New Year has little different compare to last year. Now my student role has ended and had joined with the white collar worker. if compare with previous year, i would waited and hope for holiday. when holiday come, there would lots and tonnes of homework to be done. now, there would not be any homework, just the real life of working that need to do. after been working as officer for about half month, my life is just full of numbers and codes. 

now there is another position appear to me. the salary and benefit really attract me the most. just the job description not really attract me. hmm.. seems i better to continue with my current job. but the job salary and benefit really attractive.. hmmm...